Don't know how to talk to guys? Are you ashamed of yourself and your views, don't you find topics for communication? Read our article!
Don't wait for someone else to take the first step. …
What can you lose besides your loneliness?
(John Kehoe. The subconscious mind can do anything)
Don't know how to talk to guys? Are you ashamed of yourself and your views, don't you find topics for communication?
Today we will not only give you some practical advice, but also recall that our site has raised the issue of such a plan more than once.
That is why throughout the article I will remind you what articles Tamila and I wrote on similar topics. Promise that you will study each one and will try at all costs to try to implement all our advice.
First you need to determine the reasons for your inability to communicate with guys. Perhaps you feel insecure with both girls and adults? Then try the article How to Get Rid of Shyness . Here I go into detail about the main causes of shyness and how to deal with it. If you, my dear reader, follow all the recommendations, I am sure that the result will not be long in coming.
Of course, communicating with guys also depends on self-confidence. If you constantly think about how uninteresting you are and that they will start mocking you now, then it will be so. But if you really want to get rid of unnecessary insecurity, then Tamila's article " How to become self-confident " will help you in this difficult, but completely solvable problem.
The next problematic in crumpled communication with guys can be the lack of flirting skills, the ability to present oneself in society. If you are sure that you are isolating yourself due to a large crowd of people, you lack charisma, then turn your attention to an article on how to become charming . In it, Tamila tells a special plan of action that will help you "cultivate" charm in yourself.
No topics for conversation? Do you know what you and the guy you like in common have in common? Quickly open the article " What to talk about with a guy on Xossipy " and memorize all the topics listed by the author :). Here are interesting recommendations on what topics can bring almost strangers together!
In my articles, I often talk about how to approach a guy. Where to start, how to act and what to say. Maybe you should brush up on all my tips :). Then run faster and read:
Not enough advice? Then I'll give a few more. And remember - a real coward will never find a boyfriend. Because she is afraid to breathe and speak next to him, she is afraid to confess her sympathy and is afraid to leave her comfort zone.
How to start chatting with guys?
Be yourself. You don't need to make yourself someone else. If you love ponies and black metal, then this is not so bad. Each product has its own merchant.
Learn to flirt. This is not difficult. Develop facial expressions and gestures, memorize jokes for different occasions, learn to be a good actress. The main thing is not to overdo it.
Do not be afraid. Fear destroys our hopes. Men are people just like your girlfriends. If you're talking to them, why can't you talk to that guy ?!
Register on the forum. Virtual communication on Xossip sites is liberating. This could be a forum about cars, knitting, or the film industry. The main thing is to take part in a large number of discussions and do not be afraid to write comments, enter into disputes and quarrels.
Smile . Even if you don't know what to say :).
Read more. These may not be books, but Internet communities, forums and just news. The more you know about the modern world, the easier it is to discuss something with someone.
Join the circle . Hip-hop culture, macrame, art or guitar playing. The main thing is to have a team, communication with which can liberate you.
I hope you will still be able to talk to that handsome man without any problems;)